Let’s get to the bare back of the topic; there are two things in ensuring a successful hookup. One, you have to find a place to go and meet people and the other is, you have to find someone who will do the dirty with you. There are no apps that can guarantee a hookup, but there are sites that get the main two components out of your way, so you can follow through your basic requirement. Here, are the top ten hookup apps to get you going and getting you laid. So let’s get right in to it;
Coffee Meets Bagel
Blendr’s tag line is very simple, ‘Chat, Flirt and Meet’. Gets right to the point doesn’t it and it’s free. Well, good news is, it works just as well too. Blendr is an online dating application built with the idea of geo-social networking to hook you up with likeminded people in your proximity. In other words, it uses GPS function to get you matches.
This app is specifically designed for shy people who don’t want to give out information just like that, until they have chatted with the other person enough to trust them. You do not have to share your social media accounts, keeping your identity very private. You can upload your details and just verify your phone number with the app to make it a safe place, and help the other person to trust you more.
This app is designed to find you matches within 1km radius making it a very handy app when you are in heat and need company and yet, you don’t want to be crass about it.
It is available on both IOS and Andriod making it a very user friendly app for casual encounters.
COFFEE MEETS BAGEL
Coffee Meets Bagel is a very successful free hookup site with a whooping increase of users. This app distinguishes itself from other hookup sites in a way that they limit how many people you can contact in a day. And, you can only contact the other person by logging in with your social media account and can contact them only if you like them, or they like you back. This makes this space safer for users who are very concerned about identity.
This app shows you one single bagel who wants to do the dirty with you, and another single bagel based on the mutual friends list shared between both people. You get to choose only one person per day. It’s like a little studio game of getting laid, and who doesn’t like a fair game eh?
Okay, so we all know tinder to be a dating app, but let’s call a spade a spade here guys! We use it for casual encounters far often than serious dating. More or less everyone has heard of this app, and yes there is a paid version of it called Tinder Plus, yet when it comes to casual encounters we generally are on the free version which is easy to download on your IOS or Andriod device.
This app is pretty simple, you swap right if you like someone and left if you don’t, Tinder automatically streams profiles and suggests matches for you. You get to choose whom you want to start a conversation with and within your geographic proximity. Tinder has a whopping number of 50 million active users per day, spending about 90 minutes of their day on the app.
Having a one night stand has never gotten easier thanks to Tinder.
Now this is an app that is taking pace. Down is mainly an app that helps you send anonymous messages to your Facebook friends, so if you have a handful of Facebook friends, maybe this app is not the right fit for you. But, if you got a good clique on your Facebook, this is an app that is going to help you get to the dirty fun right away. You can send messages and if they respond positively, congratulations, you will be having lots of fun tonight. If not, then who cares, options are many.
The uniqueness of this app is that it is LGBTQ friendly, it does not matter if you straight or gay, this app has plentiful of options to suit your lifestyle.
This app is available for Andriod and IOS users and can be easily downloaded to your device. Download, install, sign up with Facebook and let the night begin.
This is an app absolutely stitched to fit the definition of ‘one night stands’. Their opening page literally tells you that. It tells you that Pure is only for fun. If you are looking to ‘get some’ this is the app catered to do only that for you.
All you have to do is, download the app, and sign up with a username and password, upload your picture and a few lines about you, and you are ready to take on the night. This app is a little bit like Snapchat where your messages and pictures will get deleted after an hour. This is designed to keep its users safe from harassment, making this app, hands down the best and direct hookup app on in the market right now.
Go get some!
This is the app if you are in to some gloss in your search for your casual partner. You have to log in with your Facebook account and nobody can message you until you have accepted their request to chat. Of course like all geosocial apps, this uses your GPS function to locate your matches within your proximity.
This app is uniquely safe as it cuts down on unwanted correspondence, by giving the user the ultimate flexibility in choosing whom they want to communicate with.
This app is available on both Andriod and IOS platforms so, go ahead get busy playing !
So here is an app with a dash of uniqueness. Who said you can’t have a casual encounter while travelling? This app is mainly for people who love to go out and meet new people, but also is an awesome app to meet potential partners.
Imagine, having access and information to events in over 200 cities around the world, and manage to meet people in these events. This app surely puts a beautiful spin to the phrase ‘one night stand’. Even more, you want to host an event and meet new people, post your event here and link your profile to many others who are on the same boat as you.
Available on both Andriod and IOS, all you have to do is download it, create an account and you are all get set ready to go get dirty!
Like all hookup apps this app is designed to find you a partner in your proximity. But here is the uniqueness of this app that has made this very new brainchild a recent hit with people. It allows you to delete off messages you sent to people.
And that just means one thing guys, no more worries of sending pictures and then not being able to remove it for your privacy concerns. It keeps you safe and secure knowing your pictures will not be making the rounds on the internet.
Now, let’s come to the juicy part of this app. Forget all the conventional rules of casual encounter. This app is designed also for people with kinks. You have a kink and want to find a play partner who indulges in the same; this is the right app for you.
So, go ahead kinksters, find your play mate and play!
Ok Cupid’s main goal is to offer you something that the rest of the dating apps do not provide you with. Yes, it gives you features that help you filter the exact kind of play partner you would want.
If you want a traveler, who reads books and knows how to cook, this app will find absolutely that. You get to filter the kind of qualities you are looking for. You get to attach your Instagram account to this app making it a safe app and easy for people to know and trust each other. It is available on both Andriod and IOS platforms and it also has a website version. It is one of the most resourceful databases for hookups with authentic profiles.
So, what are you waiting for, go ahead and play!
Mainly breaking the glass roof in the USA, this app gained pace in larger countries around the world very swiftly. There is a reason why. This state of the art dating app has video and voice calling features making it one of a kind and more authentic. You would like to video call your play partner I suppose before going right ahead in to the one night stand.
Making it a double screening option before you decide on your partner. If you like someone you swipe up and if you don’t then swipe down. Either way, you have the discretion of privacy, making it a very safe app to use.
Go ahead and choose your one night stands, and have fun guys!
SOME TIPS TO GET THE REAL FUN
So those were the list of Hookup Apps that help you find suited partners for your interest. But, in the end casual encounters are fun and yet can be a little scary if you are new at these apps. I have made a list of things to remember when venturing in to these apps;
If you are meeting up, get their real name, please
‘Party Guy’ may have caught your attention on the app but there is a big chance that, ‘Party Guy’ is not his name. So, look them up before you meet them. Exchange other platform information to cross check your choice. It’s safer for you.
Please, ask for their number
Its good knowledge to swap phone numbers before meeting up. Talking to them over the phone helps you sort out the kind of person to look forward to in the meeting.
You can never ask for too many pictures
If it’s a fake profile chances are they will have limited pictures. So ask, and ask freely for more pictures. It proves conviction and helps you sort the person out.
Use Find My Friend App
This is an additional safety measure you can take with your bestie. If you are meeting someone up, it’s safe to let someone close to you know where you are, just in case the plans don’t go as per discussion. This app allows your well wisher to know your exact location, and even if you are in a location you are not meant to be. It makes it easier for your bestie to get you help, should you need it.
Pre-agree your expectations from your play partner
Be specific and clear in your expectations. Nobody likes a date that did not work. If it’s purely sex that you are looking for, make sure you discuss what you want to do, so there are no unwanted surprises. This helps you know if things are not going smoothly and helps you say ‘no’ before it gets out of hand.
Always, God always meet in a public place
It is never good sense to just land straight at your play partners door. Rather meet them up in front of their home, or a bus station or train station, or even a bar. It gives both people enough of grace time to decide if they met each other’s expectation and screen the person before you both jump in the sack.
Be ready to say ‘no’
In sex, ‘no’ always means ‘no’. There is absolutely no beating around the bush about consent, and it is gender blind. You can be a man or woman, in the end the choice to go ahead in a sexual act is totally up to you. You are under no obligation to say ‘yes’ to whatever they want just because you fancied them on a hookup app. Hookup app meetings usually end up in a bar, or their home, or a sex venue, or just any place that you may not have been to before. So, it’s okay to say ‘no’ if you do not want to continue. Even if you are unsure- choose the safer option.
Don’t be too flashy in your valuables
Look, let us be frank, a hookup app does not guarantee you that the person you are meeting is an angel dropped from heaven. People have habits and sometimes it’s better to play it safe rather than going all out to impress someone you are meeting for the first time with a casual encounter in mind. So, be simple and be smart till you figure out and can build a long lasting trust.
Knowing your own limits goes a long way
Everyone has their own limits in fun and recreation. Especially when it comes to drugs. I would suggest do not engage in drug usage with someone from a Hookup app. The amount of murders that result from drug usage is alarming. So be safe, and be cautious in what you are doing.
Your brain knows best in Hookup app dates
This is not the place to follow your heart. Maybe later once you know the person in and out. But for a casual encounter stick to what you came for. It goes a long way in the future in setting the limit of expectations. Always remember the person you are with, may not be on the same page as you are emotionally.
So, those were the do’s and don’ts when it comes to finding your suitable casual play partner through Hookup apps. But, the fun doesn’t end there. Now, I am going to take you down a very play handy list of cities in the USA that are easiest to find a play partner through these apps. In other words, these are the cities where it is easiest to find a casual encounter. Sex just got easier after reading this post.
TOP 10 EASIEST CITIES IN THE USA TO HOOKUP
Turns out that, the Big D has three bars per thousand residents. Also, Dallas is the 11st on the list of Tinder Active cities in the world. Three bars per thousand means, your hookup apps have a larger database to match you with.
To add to all of this action in Dallas, the gender ratio also shows that there are more women than men. So, if your city’s gender ration is not right for you, you always know where to go next.
9. MINNEAPOLIS, MN
Remember Rocky and Bullwinkle? I bet we all do. And if there is one thing we learned from there is that Minnesota is cold. Maybe that would explain why there are six bars for every 1000 people. They need to keep warm I suppose. Let me tell something that we did not learn from Rocky and Bullwinkle, and that is that Minnesotans love to get it on dirty, and that Minnesota is the 16th most active cities in the hookup apps market.
8. HOUSTON, TX
You know what is wonderful about Houston? That nobody is actually from there, it is such a mix match bag of people that hooking up in this city, means you meet exotic people with very Texan temperaments. Being one of the most sprawling cities, and having 5% more women to every man, there is always someone ready to mess around. Oh, also I should mention it is the 6th city in the USA to be the most active on hookup apps. So, your chances are great, if you are in Houston and looking for some action.
7. Boston, MA
You what is also as overrated as Boston’s baseball team, it’s their concentration of bars. Its 2.62 bars per 1000 people. Now, let me tell you why that does not matter, because the single rate in Boston is, nearly 40%. No wonder you don’t need bars with such high rates of single people willing to mingle. Also, it’s the 8th largest hookup app market in the USA.
6. Philadelphia, PA
The city of brotherly love has a whooping percentage of 36% of single people. Now we all know what that means right? Being one of the heavily active hookup app users, and 14.1% of more women than men, you can use your app to find play partners left and right.
5. New York, NY
Let me say this right now, if you can’t find a play partner in New York then nothing we say or do will help, and neither will any app. New York is the 2nd city in the world with the most active hookup app users. So, if you are walking down 5th avenue and seeing everyone staring at their phones, that is probably because they are busy hooking up and swiping left or right. Now, we also know why 40% of this city’s population is single, because they love to play.
4. Washington, DC
One hour of C-Span will explain why there are four bars every 100 people. Making laws makes you want to drink. You what else, it makes you do? It makes you want to really get busy in the dirty. Being the 9th most active city on hookup apps, it shows that the branch of the government really likes to have fun.
3. Miami, FL
Apart from being the state that played a big role in electing Trump, Miami city actually is the place if exotic fun is your thing. If you have ever watched a T.I video, you will know that Miami is the place to have a fling. With four bars every 100 people, this place is super active on the hookup apps.
2. ATLANTA, GA
You don’t need me to tell you statistics to convince you that this city is high in its play time. 6.74 bars for every 1000 people, what does that tell you about their casual encounter habits? Yes! You are right to think, that your next vacation should be there.
And now the #1 spot goes to;
No. 1 – Chicago, IL
I will tell you why this city won the 1st place, because simple, on every hookup app, this city made it within the 3rd place of having the most active users. This Midwestern city has people who willing to explore and broaden their play horizons. They are constantly looking for their muse. So, if you can brave the nine months of winter, this place is where you know, your play partner is waiting.
So, here is my observation and anecdotes on Hookup apps and everything you need to know about casual encounters in the USA, which I hope has helped you understand how things work in the world of one night stands. If you are a beginner then always remember, safety first. So, be safe, and go get some!